Why Unconventional Intimacy?

Western European culture has a concept of gender centred around diving into two categories, male and female, when in reality it is more fuzzy than that. Some people are born not fitting into these categories, some find that they don’t fit their assigned category and decide to change category or live outside of these categories. Sex and sensuality are also often seen as something taboo, people with lots of knowledge or experience of sex and sensuality are often shamed for that knowledge or experience. It is often considered something that should not be discussed or even properly learnt about.

Myself I’m lucky enough to both have been born intersex, so outside of the typical understanding of male or female. I was also raised in a culture that allows for more than two concepts of gender and a greater acceptance of sex and sensuality. So I feel that I would like to share my unique experiences of sex and sensuality with others.